I don’t want to live like this anymore.

Peter is a retired history professor from an Ivy League university. He is married with 2 children who attend college. He’s always been a happy person and has no history of depression. He has a large extended family who have always been supportive.

Six months ago, Peter had a seizure. Tests revealed that he had a mass in his brain and after more testing, he was diagnosed with a serious form of brain cancer called glioblastoma. Despite treatments that included surgery and chemotherapy, his cancer progressed. He’s been told that he may not live more than 6 months and that he might want to think about hospice as a care option.

Prior to his diagnosis, Peter enjoyed time with family, playing golf and pickle ball with friends, traveling and hiking. He continues to be involved with the University, serving on its Board and on various committees. He feels that his quality of life has greatly diminished. Peter has always been the type of person who takes charge and likes to be in control, and he worries that he will be a burden to his family. If he’s going to die, he’s adamant that he wants it to be on his terms. He’s asking about MAID (medical aid in dying).

Some issues and questions that Peter’s story highlights:

1. What is MAID (Medical Aid in Dying)?
2. Who qualifies for MAID?
3. Is MAID available in all States?
4. What types of medications are used in MAID?
5. What are the alternatives to MAID?
6. How can Peter discuss his wishes with his family?